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Join us in honoring the brave survivors, aka the embers of light, who come forward to share their stories. We empower betrayed partners on their healing journeys by allowing them to use their own voices. Each story of betrayal is personal to the betrayed. We want to change the narrative that “it’s just cheating or lying”. Betrayal causes harm to every part of a woman’s life. She deserves to name that harm and have her courage honored.
“Survivors want to tell their stories, not to punish, but to be believed, to be heard, and to be acknowledged. Telling the truth is the beginning of justice.”
- Judith Herman
“This is not a moment, it’s a movement! “ - Hamilton
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August 4, 2025
Annual Intimate Betrayed Partner Awareness Day
Intimate Partner Betrayal Awareness Day is observed every year on August 4 to raise visibility for the hidden trauma of betrayal in intimate relationships. Created by survivors, for survivors, this day sheds light on the emotional, psychological, and relational wounds caused by infidelity, deception, and secrecy in committed relationships.
Too often, betrayed partners suffer in silence. Our mission is to change that.
OUR MISSION
The Intimate Partner Betrayal Alliance (IPBA) exists to support women impacted by intimate partner betrayal. We provide practical resources for healing and empower betrayed partners to change the narrative around betrayal by sharing their stories. Our mission is to eliminate the shame and stigma associated with betrayal by fostering a safe, inclusive environment that promotes awareness, healing, and advocacy.
OUR VISION
The Intimate Partner Betrayal Alliance envisions a world where women betrayed in marriage are no longer silenced by shame, but empowered by truth, supported in healing, and recognized for their strength.
We exist to transform the hidden pain of betrayal into a collective force for justice, dignity, and change—igniting embers of light in every survivor’s story and restoring the power that was taken from them.
